tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1511512682838809760.post5978744567511101879..comments2021-02-23T06:36:18.521-05:00Comments on Flawlessly Ordinary: Baby LoveGowitheFlohttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01842273685414939160noreply@blogger.comBlogger5125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1511512682838809760.post-40639247859532894622016-02-29T22:43:46.468-05:002016-02-29T22:43:46.468-05:00Interesting about Jennifer. Some stresses, like yo...Interesting about Jennifer. Some stresses, like you had, are impossible to avoid. Jennifer did become content in your care, didn't she? How could she not - you are such a loving woman.<br /><br />Yes, my husband and I were as close as I've ever been. I could tell him anything. And boy, he saw all sides of me. LOL I always felt safe (except when his eyes strayed). I never had close female friends that I felt safe to share my deep dark secrets with. Finally I got so lonely that I threw caution to the wind and started sharing here. Weirdly enough - you started listening and writing back! GowitheFlohttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01842273685414939160noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1511512682838809760.post-5973125780116213652016-02-29T20:39:31.663-05:002016-02-29T20:39:31.663-05:00I hadn't wondered about myself in the womb, bu...I hadn't wondered about myself in the womb, but did about my own children and tried to keep anger/fear/stress away from my thoughts and life. They were born, happy and contented, except my last one (Jennifer). Is it because my husband wanted me to abort her and I wouldn't, so he left me for 6 weeks? Who knows. Anyway, I am wondering, could you trust enough to have a satisfying marriage? Could you be truly, emotionally close and intimate?Judyhttp://judeself.blogspot.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1511512682838809760.post-18455098059186365282016-02-29T16:37:51.513-05:002016-02-29T16:37:51.513-05:00Well, you've done your homework and you self-e...Well, you've done your homework and you self-exploration. You deserve the rewards you're reaping.Misadventures of Widowhoodhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17262709452281226620noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1511512682838809760.post-25491408258277325592016-02-29T07:57:05.199-05:002016-02-29T07:57:05.199-05:00I am! This is substantive change, at LONG last. ...I am! This is substantive change, at LONG last. This proves to me how malleable our brains and nervous systems are (even older ones like ours). GowitheFlohttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01842273685414939160noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1511512682838809760.post-73476997548883987122016-02-28T23:04:12.595-05:002016-02-28T23:04:12.595-05:00Glad it's working for you and that your feel s...Glad it's working for you and that your feel safe. That is two BIGGIES to be happy about.Misadventures of Widowhoodhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17262709452281226620noreply@blogger.com